I was a bit of a troublemaker, if you will. A kolohe.
I realized I was lost and didn’t know what I was going to do after high school, so after a very short career in college, I decided to join the military. And that was exactly what I needed at the time.
The military shaped me, humbled me, and ultimately made me learn to never take my life for granted.
I have lost close friends, and even had a couple close calls myself, while I served. Nonetheless, I grew a strong appreciation for the military, and what we did to serve our country.
The day I returned home to Hawai’i, I coincidentally met Kris. I did not get to talk to her much the night we met, but little did I know that us meeting was going to drastically change my life.
A few months later, we went on our first date. A few weeks after that, she was my girlfriend. Our love grew fast, and it grew stronger than any other love I have known before.
But I saw her struggle with her job. She came home to me so unhappy, that sometimes she would just lay in bed crying. We would watch puppy and kitten videos to try distract her.
I knew Kris was the type of woman to do anything to make her dreams a reality, and she proved me right. She came to me and said she was going to start this online journey. She had no idea how, or what to do, but she was going to go for it.
Of course I was skeptical as hell, but after seeing her suffer so much from her job, why would I stop her?
I gave her a kiss on the forehead and told her to go for it. I was internally screaming, thinking we were going to go into debt over this business, but I trusted her.
Six months later, Kris was making enough money from her online business to cover all of our bills; including our mortgage and her student loans, without even touching our paychecks from our jobs. Not only that, but we also had enough money saved where I could start my own online business and join her.
I WAS IN.
I told her to help me get started working online so that I could join her. We became an entrepreneurial couple, which I did not envision for myself just a few months before it happened.
Fast forward later in 2019, it came the time for me to decide if I was going to re-enlist in the military. I had a pre-exisiting health condition that was starting to take a toll on my body, and I also knew that I wanted to have time and location freedom so I can travel with Kris.
It was not an easy decision to make, but I made the choice to end my military career to focus on my health, and to also support a decision I made with my new wife. We started this journey together, and I have honestly never been more proud of her, and of us.